For healthy family life and successful

For healthy family life and successful

For healthy family life and successful



Rahma Alafli

Do you know that the Prophet peace be upon him had married Zoulikha former wife of Aziz Egypt Botefar which Ahqth to the point of obsession and yearning for the same and the cause of his imprisonment for 12 years as revenge for that Astafv what invited him are women and the supervision of Egypt and with that has found him and has been struggling with heartburn longing for a period of thirty years until it lost the beauty and the beauty that was a modern people of Egypt, Kmazhb youth and sapped its strength and a large sight became very ugly and defiled God after a life of glory and honor and prestige, and then returned Vtapt and returned it senses he wanted God in his wisdom and generosity that compensated for their patience and alter Hqaha and denying that inspired him to the worship of one God, Lord Joseph _ _.. God revealed to His Prophet that taken by his wife after returning to her sight and freshness and youth and beauty and splendor ... and so it wanted before in the no man's land Fmnah of God, his wisdom and willing to have the wife after her repentance and return to the straight path .. Glory to God for what they say.



mohamed Benamor
Housing and love and compassion are the basis of the sexual relationship between men and women, the wife is the housing, and the absence of love and compassion breaks down housing.
Housing is self Tmonintha tranquility and stability, housing is the protection, security and peace, comfort and shade and rim and satiety, pleasure, accommodation is not a moral value and material value. Because the moral value of housing, the spouse must be paid when the moral things, a n share love and compassion with the wife.
This housing will be built on love and compassion, Vmodp and compassion are the basis and structure, content, and air, and the absence of love and compassion housing collapse, why the wife is made the accommodation?
Answer comes from the same verse
(And that He created for you wives from among yourselves to find repose in them)
Roman: 21
Says: (created for you wives from among yourselves)
Pay attention to the word pairs did not say women, ie not only at the relationship of marriage.
Can not be achieved unless women turned to the wife.
So originally in life is to be a marriage. Man qualified to be a husband and a woman is qualified to be a wife. The man goes to the woman to become his wife, to live it. If you were not his wife, it is impossible to become real housing for him. Therefore not valid relationship between men and women is only to marry, and can not be for a man to enjoy the housing only through marriage.
And complete the verse: (and put between you affection and mercy).The housing on the former love and compassion.
It has to be for a person to live first, to choose a righteous woman and make her girlfriend to come to housing. If the housing has made love and compassion.
So you can not have love and compassion only through In the context of housing, that is, through and in the framework of marriage.
Lord's eloquent words and says: (and make you) that God is the one who make, or should be. As long as that marriage must continue to love and compassion.
This is a guarantee from God for everyone who wants to marry. If you want to live they must marry. And if married they must enjoy the affection and compassion.
And hopes the Lord's call minutes (you)
He did not say the Almighty: (you make but you. It means it is a matter reciprocal, ie, exchanged by husband and wife that is love and compassion not Taathakqan only of the parties. Any can not be one-sided. Did not make God and man dada merciful and alone, did not make women and Daddah compassionate alone. this is not enough, but to be both. and moving men toward women in anticipation of housing. And who does he live? not the body, but spirit, spirit of the man lived to the spirit of women, and coveted by love and compassion, love of women and mercy, Vthbha him.
Among the names of Allah that is friendly Rahman, the Merciful. So love and compassion are some attributes of the Almighty. Therefore not within the meaning of love and compassion is nothing more than love. Anything above that many stages of love. As distance between the earth and the sky. The difference between the rich and the Pleiades.
And affection are required in good times and compassion required in adversity. This is the wisdom of the Meeting of the words in order to marry. This is an indication that the couple will face the difficulties of life together. There are days and easy days and tough days Sarah and sad days. Easy days and tough days. Duration required in the easy days easy good, and compassion are needed in difficult and sad days and difficult.
And affection, kindness, joy and sociability and simplicity, modesty and purity and tenderness and intimacy and harmony, and show the inclination and the desire and attraction, and the expression of longing, and in that pleasure is complete, amuse and delight and starchy.
The Mercy are tolerance, forgiveness and tolerance, understanding, compromise and compassion and pity and containment, protection, patience, restraint and control anger and stay away altogether from the cruelty and violence and tender without borders and giving free of charge and endurance, sublimity and greatness and strip completely from selfishness and arrogance, vanity and narcissism. The meanings of love and are superior to confirm fusion of soul summit and the summit of the interdependence of eternal immortal.
Women are eligible by virtue of its composition to reflect all these original meanings, and so are the real housing, not fit to live only were eligible for it. If the housing is love and compassion. They are able to move the man's ability to love and compassion. Because the start of then, when the response from the man affectionately Ibadelha love mercy and compassion.
The marriage remains intact and continues an ongoing love and compassion. And the moment of divorce is a moment of drought full of love, compassion and extracted from the hearts.
There are hearts of stone, or more severe, the heart is unfit to be stable for any affection and mercy, and are therefore not suitable for marriage. If he is married and miserable marriage should end in divorce.
Marriage needs to hearts full of affection and compassion.
* They say that the marriage of the jacket girl. But is in fact a jacket to the man more. When the husband dies the house continues to exist, continue to remain the wife and children around them then they disperse, but they go and come, but if the wife died, the house is collapsing, and the husband alone can not turn a house and can not survive for a home. Turns off the house and disperse the children.
Rahma Alafli
My brother Mohamed Sani fact unable to thank you what you wrote deserves all the appreciation and admiration and a beacon to guide the minds and prey ... your definition of marriage, housing, compassion and love, summed up the reality of what must be among the spouses of the following elements without which the marriage does not continue to rope WAC between spouses does not take place Columns love ... God bless you and God Nfna your knowledge of God and all the best jazz
mohamed Benamor
Sister of mercy, the problem is not in the provision of these concepts derived from the Book of Aziz al-Hakim, but the real problem lies in the alienation that planted by the forces of arrogance and tyranny and underdevelopment in our home than on the relationship between men and women to the relationship between conflict and Tills and Tzalm instead on the relationship of affection and Mercy, which is supposed to prevail between the Muslim and Muslim relations and print some of us ... so we are unable to spread between us sexually and chronic diseases under the remnants of man-made laws that are not even suitable for regulating the relations of animals to each other.
Anstee long in God's care and God bless you and make you happy from the minimum and the Hereafter.
Rahma Alafli

My brother Mohammed I agree we do not need to concepts and sufficiency endoscopically what should be the relationship between spouses as much as we need to see these concepts applied to the ground, because we need strong to happy homes dominated by love and compassion, understanding and harmony ... We need to comfort, calm and housing not the actual verbal ... we are good men to religious guardians ... and women, good, to guard the intimacy which God is not housing, mercy, and affection for actors such as traders who men who kneel to them mountains ... men and women who miss the fact that we are now to their presence.